The "Wouldn't It Be Nice" Method is all about shifting your mindset, visualizing your desired future and manifesting from a place of high vibrational energy. We have to thank Abraham Hicks (or Mommy Hicks, as we like to call her) for this incredible technique that can shift your subsconsious thoughts and help you manifest your dream life. Let's get into how it works.
What is the "Wouldn't It Be Nice" Method?
"Wouldn't It Be Nice" is a method of manifestation derived from the wisdom of Abraham Hicks.
It's all about considering all of the possibilities for yourself - not being held back by self doubt or imposter syndrome.
It's pretty simple, you begin thoughts or sentences with the phrase "Wouldn't it be nice if..." and then letting your desires run wild.
You could say, "Wouldn't it be nice if I landed my dream job?" or "Wouldn't it be nice if I lived in this beautiful house?" The crux here is turning the whole manifestation process into a joyful high energy experience rather than a stressful, anxiety-ridden mission.
By putting your desires in this format, you're not clinging onto the outcome too tightly or steeped in the anxiety of 'how' and 'when.'
Instead, you're fostering a sense of anticipation and excitement. It's like sending an invite to the universe saying, "Hey, this is what I'm dreaming of, and I'm open to you making it happen." In doing so, the whole manifestation process becomes more enjoyable, light-hearted, and stress-free.
What is Manifesting?
At its simplest, manifesting is the process of turning the invisible into the visible, the imagined into the real. It's about making your thoughts, dreams, and desires tangible. Manifesting isn't just wishful thinking, it's about actively creating your reality. It's a powerful dialogue between you and the universe where your thoughts and actions synergize with the universal energy to actualize your deepest desires.
Manifesting is like placing an order with the universe. You specify what you want, believe that it's possible, and then wait for it to arrive. It's an empowering process, where you take charge of your life and destiny. You're not a mere puppet tossed about by the whims of fate, instead, you're the scriptwriter, director, and lead actor in the grand play of your life.
By channeling your thoughts, feelings, and actions towards what you truly want, you create a magnetic field of attraction. This magnetism draws the very things you desire into your life. But remember, like any potent tool, it's not just about wanting something, but also aligning your thoughts, emotions, and actions with that desire. It's about creating harmony between what you wish for and how you live your life.
How to Do the "Wouldn't It Be Nice" Manifesting Method
Step 1: Identify Your Desire:
The first step on this journey is to identify what you genuinely desire. What is it that you wish to bring into your life? This could be anything - a fulfilling career, an enriching relationship, a tranquil home, or even a sense of inner peace. The key here is clarity. You need to be clear about what you're manifesting, as vague or murky desires often lead to equally uncertain outcomes.
So take a moment, close your eyes, and listen to your heart. What does it yearn for? What does it whisper when the world is quiet, and it's just you and your thoughts? This is your desire, your starting point in the "Wouldn't It Be Nice" method.
Step 2. Phrase It Right:
Now that you have your desire in mind, it's time to put it into words. This is where the magic phrase "Wouldn't it be nice if..." comes in. Let's say your desire is to find a new job. Frame it as, "Wouldn't it be nice if I landed that ideal job?" This way, you're expressing your desire without the stress of how and when.
The phrasing here is crucial. It’s light, it’s open-ended, it’s like a sigh of happiness, or anticipation. You're creating a positive, joyous narrative around your desire that makes the process feel more like an enjoyable daydream than a high-stakes mission.
Step 3. Feel It:
Visualization is a powerful tool in manifestation, but it doesn't stop at seeing. To truly bring your desire to life, you need to invoke all your senses. What does your dream job feel like? What does your office look like? How does the satisfaction of doing meaningful work taste? The more vivid your sensory experience, the stronger your emotional connection to your desire.
By fully immersing yourself in the feelings your desire brings, you're aligning your emotional state with your dream reality. And as you'll remember from our chat on manifesting, it's this emotional alignment that fuels the manifestation process.
Repeat: Manifestation isn't a one-time event; it's an ongoing process. Once you've identified a desire, phrased it right, and truly felt it, you're ready to move on to the next one. Keep going, cycling through all your heart's desires.
Remember, there's no ceiling on what you can dream of or achieve. The universe doesn't ration its abundance. So dream big, dream bold, and dream often.
4. Let Go:
After you've dreamt your dreams and painted your desires with your feelings, it's time to release them into the universe. Don't stress about the how or the when. Your job isn't to micromanage the universe but to trust it.
By releasing your desires, you're signaling your trust in the universe and its timing. And remember, the universe always delivers, maybe not on your schedule or in the way you imagined, but it always comes through.
5. Keep It Positive:
The final step in this method is to maintain a positive mindset. We all have moments of doubt, moments when our thoughts take a detour into the land of 'what ifs' and 'buts.' And that's okay. It's natural. But it's also crucial to steer our thoughts back to positivity.
When a negative thought surfaces, acknowledge it, and then gently nudge your mind back towards your desires. This isn't about denying negative thoughts but about choosing positivity, choosing to focus on your dreams, your desires, and your ultimate goal - manifesting them into reality.
Final Thoughts
The "Wouldn't It Be Nice" method is a playful, effortless approach to manifesting your desires. It's about letting your dreams take flight, giving them space to grow, and trusting the universe to take care of the rest.
This technique shows us that manifesting doesn't have to be strenuous or challenging—it can be as simple as asking, "Wouldn't it be nice...?" And who knows? The universe might just surprise you with a resounding "Yes, it would".
